The best way to sink our own boat, in this sea of defeat, remorse, pains, and lack of loyalty, is to stop walking, turn around ourselves and gaze at what we have done, what we haven't, think about the old good times, and solace ourselves with our former glories.
Self flogging is not an olympic sport, nor recognized by any mundane, or divine sport association. As far as I have known, no one has ever get an award for self flogging skills. It's actually quite a sickness and a paved road to perdition.
One of the consequences we immediately get by looking back is self flogging. Please be aware of it. Besides, self flogging helps no one. What really makes the difference is the right assessment of the causes of mistake(s) we might have done, and carefully study what has lead us to such errors and mistakes. Once identified, make the firm resolution to put the strongest combat against such causes, and never forget it.
It's important to identify how did we got to the point where we screw it, because here lies the first recovery unit we need to make use of. Practice in doing this, will lead us to better decisions in the future and greater self confidence.
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